Hello beautiful people!
Let’s look at our relationships a little closer.
It’s time to come to grips with being awesome.
It’s time to come to grips with just how much you’ve changed since we began this program.
I want to lay out the necessity of managing relationships in ruthless fashion, using clear lines for what you can no longer tolerate in your lives… whom you can no longer tolerate in your lives.
Before I do that, I’m going to rehash the notion of the Web of Trust, so that we can make sure everyone has at least a foundation in it because understanding the power of the Web of Trust is key to making a grace-filled transition to the next tier.
In a previous lesson, Bonnie mentioned that you may start getting angry with people you know who are no longer keeping up with the speed at which your energy is moving you. This anger may also, from time to time, be turned onto you by the people you’re leaving behind. They don’t undertand you… what’s changed in you, and they want you back to the way you were.
This has happened to Bonnie and me as we grew. Some of our people got mad that we didn’t have time for them anymore.
We didn’t.
We didn’t have time for them anymore because we became too busy to spend time with people who were not seeing where we were going… or people who refused to make the effort to come with us.
So, I’ve got a short audio that lays out the notion of the need for — and the tools to help in — cutting people out of your lives rather than getting/staying mad at them because they can’t/won’t become awesome too.
But that doesn’t mean you’re going to turn into a soulless robot or a Machiavellian thug who abandons people they care about. It just means that as you shift your focus toward the next tier and the next, you need to change the way you focus and expend your very limited resources to get done the things you need to get done.
Thanks for going through that with me.
Today’s work is to go through your Web of Trust using the three-dimensional model and start coming to understand the need for severing lower-tier relationships. And share below your process.
To me, what I’m asking of you is at the crux of taking charge of yourself and choosing your own direction toward success, and it’s a really empowering thing once you grasp its simplicity.
Rock on!
K