Hello you beautiful people and welcome to Aligned Advantage for May!

I’m so excited to go on this deep dive of each month’s calendar together using the power of the woo-woo tools my momma taught me. 😉
Hooray!
It’s time to tackle the May calendar so here we go!
(PLANNING NOTE: Our Zoom at 11am PDT on May 24th — at this Zoom link — will be about June’s magic. Until then, it’s all about May.)
As always, we’ll cover what the numerology of the days mean, what the moon’s move through the signs tell us, and of course how all this plays out in your favor in the most intriguing and powerful ways!
During the Zoom, I’ll take questions about how all of this relates to trends you’re tracking in your OWN chart — be sure to bring your chart (render it at a site like Astro.com) — and we’ll talk about how the woo of the month aligns with YOU!
Please feel free to ask questions in the comments area below and while some will be best-suited for our live Zoom, certainly I’ll do what I can to help explain some of how I make the calendar work for me in the comments before and after our Zooms.

If you need support materials for interpreting the various notations on this calendar, head back over to your Aligned Advantage Welcome page, where I have stored some goodies for you!
And now… the replay of our live Zoom session about the May calendar and all its juicy goodness… plus, our start-up with Secondary Progressions! Enjoy!
Here is your walk-thru for creating your own birth-year ephemeris:
Here’s a big-ass walk-thru for using the Moon Phase Calendar at Astro-Seek for even more information:
And here’s your UPDATED worksheet action for this month’s deep-dive! Yay! More pages!!
Questions? Keep ’em comin’! I love these discussions SO MUCH and really enjoy sharing all this learning with you.
If you’d like to book a one-on-one with me for some all-about-you woo, in which we’ll customize your Chart Harmony remedy so it works best for you, head over here. Woo HOO!
Y’all, thank you for joining me here. I’m so proud to be the astrologer’s daughter and I know Charlsie is loving all this growth. 🙂
All my love,
Our *next* monthly LIVE interactive Aligned Advantage meeting is happening at this Zoom link at 11am PDT on Tuesday, May 24th (translate that to your time zone here.
You are welcome to go on camera for this Q&A session, or simply unmute yourself to participate live audio-only. Yes, we will be recording the meeting and putting its replay up (along with the *next* calendar) in next month’s page for you to consume. Hooray!
If it’s possible that you’ve never Zoomed before, for sure we recommend you get all set up *before* our meeting. Zoom is free, and there’s info on how to get going here.
And of course, any questions for me, pop ’em in below! Woo HOO!
Just started the replay to get my May calendar going and had to stop right away.
I took a road trip to MI this past weekend for a family birthday and on the way out when asked what I wanted to listen to by my partner I said, “ya know, I’ve been thinking about Train a lot the past couple of days” and he put the Drops of Jupiter album on!
Synchronicity indeed….
Back to the replay!
Come! ON! Love it. 🙂
Some interesting things I discovered:
-I was born the day after a New Moon, but still in the same sign.
-For the most part, as of this year, for the rest of my life my Mars will be under the Aries moon influence.
-Starting next year my Mercury will be in Pisces moon influence for 2 decades, which comes pretty close to coinciding with when I decided to really focus on writing as a career (Mercury being in my 10th house and all) and maybe why it’s taken me almost 2 years to finally get to writing my children’s book.
-Currently finishing up 3 years of Leo moon influence, which has been maybe the best years career-wise for me. (and also throwing in the numerology for those years, why there was lot of push and pull happening).
-Which means the 2 years prior, under Cancer moon, was when I was back home dealing with my dad getting sick and dying.
-My age 28 epiphany was under Aquarius moon and when I moved to LA (also the end of 9/beginning of 1 year in numerology).
-Curious about the Sun with secondary progressions since mine would be Aquarius as a kid, Pisces as an adult, and Aries “of a certain age”. That doesn’t seem weird to me at all.
Usually the Moon is the biggest player in 2ndary progressions. I’ve taken a bunch o’ classes and whenever we (the students) try to get the instructor to go into ANYTHING BUT THE MOON shifting into different signs or stationing retrograde or direct, we’re told, “Yeah, it’s a factor… but THE MOON…” and to me that means it’s sort of like Zodiacal Releasing, and how it’s got Level 1, 2, 3, 4 (and all the way down to 8 or 9, if you use the Astro-Seek website’s latest roll-out), wherein Level 1 is the big-shift stuff we really notice. Same with Firdaria. Or with annual profections and how we can do monthly profections and even profect from the sect light in addition to the main way: from the Ascendant… ASC will always have dominance. The others are considerations, but not the main ways the tool is used.
From what I understand, it’s as though all other planets by progression ONLY affect that same area of our lives in the here and now (so, Sun = ego, body, vitality; Mercury = communication, how we think/believe, etc.), but the Moon colors our whole lives for those ~2.5 years it’s in each sign (and those patterns are way noticeable, because of how many laps we get of them).
We’ll dig in on the phases of the 2ndary progressed Moon in our Zoom this month. 🙂 Another layer of complexity and fun!
HELLOOOOO…. I am just NOW coming out of the vortex known as working/living at Coachella/Stagecoach for 28 days…
I have so missed my aligned advantage notes for this month – and am diving in to the the first part of the zoom now.
So Venus finally moved out of my 7th house – and I DID not elope and get married – but a crazy with a capital K whirlwhind romance – a guy i havent seen/heard of since my senior prom in 1992 – did sweep me off my feet for the last 10 weeks or so…
from my hometown, he came to visit me in Burbank, and then again when I was in Nashville, and again when I was at Coachella….
(sounds crazy just typing it) … only to crash and burn in a big pile of …. DYSFUNCTION! (surprise!) two days before last week’s eclipse.
HEY LEAH LOOK AT ALL THOSE LESSONS YOU JUST GOT TO BE REMINDED OF!
GOOD JOB RECOGNIZING AND WALKING AWAY FROM DYSFUNCTION!
WAY TO PRACTICE SELF PRESERVERANCE WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF IN ANOTHER WOUNDED BIRD RELATIONSHIP, LEAH
Oh hey – look at all of these lovely tips from Brianne Davis – about love addiction….
It was touch and go for a minute… but I made it out…. and got to practice/experience what a romantic relationship as an adult looks like..
I got to practice softening my heart more, practice being vulnerable with someone in an intimate setting.
I got to practice what trusting/depending/relying on another human being feels like – I’ve been solo for a long time.
All good things
Oof….
I am not really looking forward to the shenanigans of Venus/Jupiter in Aries – my 8th house where Chiron resides…but I am obviously in a window of great potential for healing some pretty big stuff….
Okay, enough about me! lol
diving in to the replay! .
I *love* that you got to play out so many expressions of love and vulnerability and openness and growth in such a compressed timeline. That’s amazing!! So proud of you! 🙂
As for the Aries tour we’re in now, what sort of things in the 8th house could benefit from Mars energy? (Since Mars rules Aries.) What sort of things that may be a little sleepy in the 8th house for you could get turned UP thanks to all of that puppy-level enthusiasm and passionate curiosity?
Aw, thanks…. it was so very sweet to feel “in love” ….
and do “couple” things…
The high-school/hometown guy…. he’s stubbornly (also a taurus) not letting this end.
And I… with all my Venus energy… went back for another round of puppy-level enthusiasm and passionate curiosity, this week, … good ole Mercury Retrograde…. and am now trying to extricate myself from a situation that feels like ….. a final exam in Leah’s romantic relationship journey….. so many aha moments, so many sweet moments, AND too many volatile moments… dude definitely needs some chart harmony with Mars and likely Saturn as well.
Good questions, Bon.
Before I left for Coachella beginning of April – I *did* in fact meet up with my bio Aunt and cousin – that I never knew existed.
It went well. Now that I’m back east, I know they are hoping for more in person time, and they want to introduce me to my half-sister. (apparently no one speaks to my “dad” – he’s retired to florida)…. and I’m kind of okay, with meeting the other family members first. lol
I feel like that is definitely related to Jupiter in my 8th house Aries w/Chiron, yeah?
I mean biggest wound and all…. and for the first time, I’m willing to be curious around these other humans that I have never known.
spending today catching up on these secondary progressions I missed out on last month – and looking forward to tomorrow.
I *love* that you’re looking at ways to bring that expansive Jupiter energy to that dark house, knowing your healing journey with Chiron is going to be SO primed for massive, exciting breakthroughs by your Chiron Return!!
So grateful for you, Bonnie! Love being in an Aquarius phase for the next 2.5 years! Interestingly, my Sun for this day is in the same degree as my rising sign in my sidereal chart. The correlations between my Sidereal and Western charts are always fascinating. Will be catching up on the Chart Harmony Challenge tomorrow – I keep telling my inbox to put your emails in my primary account, and Mercury Retrograde buried them so missed the beginning. See you Tuesday.
Yay! You’re so awesome, Melanie. LOVE seeing you take this work on with such joy. Also, your workbook is Ah.May.Zing. I spent a little more time with it this week and found myself doing some of the toe/heel/footwork exercises in the past couple of days. So wonderful!!
Also, I want to find a Zero Balance practitioner out here in Santa Monica. A friend mentioned that practice to me and I’ve done some Googling. Seems like Saturn would LOVE for me to do some of that bone work!
What I’m loving the most about Astrology is that feels like learning to read music sheet from my own cosmic symphony, the music I’m dancing in this lifetime, to see the arrangement of all this energy, and now I have more tools to design a choreography when I need to perform, or loose myself to dance with no fear of the unknown. Weeeeeee!!! \o/
So… About secondary progressions, the moon was Waxing Gibbous in Sagittarius in the 11th house on July 1st, 1974, meaning my 48th day. Question: Should I consider the house to read this enegy?
Love you Bonnie
I love you too, Thalma. So glad you’re finding your own music to swirl around to. Perfect!! I love the metaphor. Thank you for sharing that.
For Secondary Progressions with the Moon, specifically, we use the SIGN the progressed Moon is in to help us understand the flavor of the 2.5 years (approximately) we’ll be in that sign’s energy. The PHASE the progressed Moon is in tells us the energy. And the phase can often last longer than the sign.
The HOUSES things are happening in when you’re looking at progressed charts, solar return charts, etc., absolutely can be considered, but I wouldn’t focus too much on that, since EVERYTHING shifts in progressions (including your Rising sign, therefore, what is CURRENTLY your 2nd House won’t necessarily be your 2nd House in a progressed chart). Hope this makes sense. Lemmeknow if it needs clarifying.
You continue to inspire me!