Hello you beautiful people and welcome to Aligned Advantage for January!
I’m so excited to go on this deep dive of each month’s calendar together using the power of the woo-woo tools my momma taught me. 😉
Hooray!
It’s time to tackle the January calendar so here we go!
NOTE: Our Zoom at 11am PST on January 21st (at this Zoom link) will be about February’s magic. Until then, it’s all about January.
As always, we’ll cover what the numerology of the days mean, what the moon’s move through the signs tell us, and of course how all this plays out in your favor in the most intriguing and powerful ways!
During the Zoom, I’ll take questions about how all of this relates to trends you’re tracking in your OWN chart — be sure to bring your chart (render it at a site like Astro.com) — and we’ll talk about how the woo of the month aligns with YOU!
Please feel free to ask questions in the comments area below and while some will be best-suited for our live Zoom, certainly I’ll do what I can to help explain some of how I make the calendar work for me in the comments before and after our Zooms.
If you need support materials for interpreting the various notations on this calendar, head back over to your Aligned Advantage Welcome page, where I have stored some goodies for you!
And now… the replay of our live Zoom session about the January calendar and all its juicy goodness! Enjoy!
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Questions? Keep ’em comin’! I love these discussions SO MUCH and really enjoy sharing all this learning with you.
Y’all, thank you for joining me here. I’m so proud to be the astrologer’s daughter and I know Charlsie is loving all this growth. 🙂
All my love,
Our *next* monthly LIVE interactive Aligned Advantage meeting is happening at this Zoom link at 11am PST on Friday, January 21st (translate that to your time zone here).
You are welcome to go on camera for this Q&A session, or simply unmute yourself to participate live audio-only. Yes, we will be recording the meeting and putting its replay up (along with the *next* calendar) in next month’s page for you to consume. Hooray!
If it’s possible that you’ve never Zoomed before, for sure we recommend you get all set up *before* our meeting. Zoom is free, and there’s info on how to get going here.
And of course, any questions for me, pop ’em in below! Woo HOO!
Thank you for the heads up for 2022.
In regards to the Eclipses/ transformations my whole sign is different that placidus for houses. Taurus in 2, 3 and Scorpio 8, 9. What should I focus on?
From doing the astro vision board, my 2nd house felt the weakest and chiron is in Aries. I was going to focus on healing for this and move forward with my money matters. So any tips? I started reading about chiron so maybe can we learn more?
I have been working with Saturn and Mars to get shit done but Mercury likes to mix things up for me so so much. Plus my moon is in Gemini. Lots of feet on the ground and hands on the heart sessions these days.
Working on my calendar, I am wondering what are the best houses for vacation, working hard, how to plan strategically around the houses? Kind of the basics. Like when to get ready to launch something etc. I find that my gardening falls out of alignment with my 2nd house being in May-it doesn’t bring me money but I work hard- it requires lots of time away from my desk-would it be best to let it go or hire a gardener.? That sort of thing. December 21st is all about Christmas and I adore that but this is my time to shine(used to be a super hostess) and I would love to somehow harness this for work but it is over the Holidays. I guess what I am asking is suggestions on getting clearer and making adjustments. My good work houses fall in to all the retrogrades as well…Any thoughts?
Maybe it is legit letting all the ‘old go’ and bring in the new?? Panic attack. lol.
I used to have very firm deadlines and that was really good for me but now structure seems to be I have a good week, a couple bad, and back to good and the cycle keeps going. Maybe it’s 2nd house and 11th house work to balance everything?
There is so much information that is divine but wondering if there is a strategy to organize it all?
Hope some of these questions give you ideas too!! If they make some semblance of sense.
See you in 2022!
Lotsa love to everyone!
~Bex
Hi, Bex! So many delicious questions and so many rabbit holes. I hope that you find all of the clarity you are looking for. My chiron is also in Aries, so anything we can share here would be great. I need to delve into that area for sure. I’ll let you know anything I find out.
I’m putting Chiron on our list for 2022 (it was on the list for 2021, but then I built totally NEW astro things that can change the world, so I pushed Chiron to the back burner). Pretty sure we have a pretty healthy population of Aries Chiron folks in the membership. 🙂
Yes so many. I kind of go down all the rabbit holes. Thank goodness for meditation!
Just popping in to say… that my Chiron is also in Aries – for me it’s 8th house
Okay, lemme see if I can get to these questions. 😉
Re: What should I focus on?
In Placidus, you’ll want to look up the exact degree of the eclipses for 2022 to find out which houses they land in for your natal chart. That’ll tell you where the transformation work is showing up for you. (In Whole Sign Houses, it’s decided for you, since the signs and houses are an exact match.) And no matter which houses, the enoughness/values/shadow work/sex/occult/possessions/earned money/other people’s money work is for sure, because of the signs the eclipses are in.
Re: I started reading about chiron so maybe can we learn more?
I’m putting Chiron *back* on our list for 2022. Pretty sure we have a pretty healthy population of Aries Chiron folks in the membership. 🙂
Re: I am wondering what are the best houses for vacation, working hard, how to plan strategically around the houses? Kind of the basics. Like when to get ready to launch something etc.
Vacation can be 5th house because it’s play, childlike glee, friskiness. Or 9th house because it’s expansion and experiences and international travel and exploration. Or 3rd if it’s more like a staycation (near home).
Working hard can be pretty much anywhere, honestly, but for things like your business and launching an offer you’ve monetized, I’d look to the 1st and 2nd houses (build from the YOU of the 1st into the EARNED MONEY of the 2nd). I’d do a promo in the 3rd house (communication, social networking). I’d do partner work (like my Astrology for Creatives offer with Rachel) in the 7th house. I’d publish in the 9th house. I’d do a TON of public-facing/audience-facing work in the 10th and 11th.
Of course, you can do anything when the Sun is lighting up ANY house! But if the Sun is in a place like the 8th or 12th, for example, I’d be sure Mars or Mercury or Jupiter or Venus (whatever I need the most help with, for the vibe of what I’m doing) is in a more powerful/business-oriented house.
Re: I find that my gardening falls out of alignment with my 2nd house being in May-it doesn’t bring me money but I work hard- it requires lots of time away from my desk-would it be best to let it go or hire a gardener.?
Does gardening bring you joy? If so, do it because it’s a pleasure, not because it’s something you can generate money doing. If you’re distracted by having to leave your desk, don’t leave! We all have to weigh out whether the joy we get from a hobby works with the amount of not-work-focused time it takes, at times. 😉
Re: My good work houses fall in to all the retrogrades as well… Any thoughts?
I’d spend the time BEFORE the Sun hits the “good work houses” for you doing the work and then spend the (I’m assuming Mercury) retrogrades revising, revisiting, reviewing, rewriting, repricing, re- re- re- all the things. Mercury retrograde is GREAT for that!
Re: I used to have very firm deadlines and that was really good for me but now structure seems to be I have a good week, a couple bad, and back to good and the cycle keeps going.
I think this is more quarantineitis than anything else, Bex. We’re all in a long trauma at this point (remember my piece called “It’s About to Get Chronic“) and having a good week followed by a bad week or two and then back to a good week is par for the course. I don’t think our astro has much to do with this part.
Re: There is so much information that is divine but wondering if there is a strategy to organize it all?
Sure. But it starts by organizing one little bit first. Then layering in another little thing. And then another, while recalibrating the first thing, which probably needs revisiting now (ooh, during a Mercury retrograde, maybe?). 😉
When we try to organize it all at the same time, we’re just asking for overwhelm. Start small. Pick something to adjust. And get good with that for a bit. Then layer in something else. Keep going.
You’ve got this, Bex!
WOWZA. Thank you for all this goodness! Your answers really helped me feel the layers. There is certainly so much to process. My big picture brain just wants to see it all at once! I will go through this bit by bit and give myself the time. Good reminder that Mercury in retrograde will be a good time to do this.
I’m sure it will draw out more questions.
The quarantineitis -haha- didn’t even think that that is what it is. The blog link and linked ones really put it in to perspective. Lockdown #4 at the Beginning of 2022. FUN. Like molasses. I will be more kind to myself.
LOVE LOVE LOVE My You in the stars book!!!
Yayayayayayay! Love you, Bex. Fun like molasses indeed!
Hi all! Yesterday was so great! Such fun! Really looking forward to riding our magic carpets into 2022 together! I’ve been going ALL IN on this Chart Harmony/Planetary Remediation stuff and, thanks to Bonnie’s Daily Planetary Tributes page, I am walking around my apartment with all of this sparkling costume jewelry I have and every royal blue or purple thing I own to honor Jupiter today! Got my sparkling old lady earrings on from my audition costume stash and forgot I had all of this craziness on and went down to the lobby to pick up a delivery and, of course, ran into a couple of neighbors who slowly smiled and moved pass me with their tentative “hello” and I was like, what’s up with that? Only until I walked back into my apartment and realized my outfit! HA! But I will say, that this shit is a GAME. CHANGER! I need to make nice with Saturn, so I decided that on Saturn’s hour I was going to do my daily decluttering during that time frame and BAM! I came across a magazine that I never cracked open that I subscribed to back in 2019 and the cover title was an unbelievably timely message for me and THEN, THEN you all, I came across a very important business card that I thought I had lost from a very important meeting I had 6 years ago that is now very timely for me! MAGIC, y’all! Than you, Bonnie, for leading us to water! I hope all of you have an amazing holiday. Looking forward to seeing you all again next year!
YOU are inspiring! Way to go, Jill!! Wowowowowowowow! You’re a FAST manifestor! Cannot WAIT to see what’s next! (Probably gonna tap you for a testimonial once we get Chart Harmony up and out there.)
Jill ! I love this! You are inspiring me to start remediation –
So good on the glitter! Sounds like so much fun! I am harnessing Saturn by bringing back wearing black. I used to only wear black and stopped. Had a strange relationship with it and now am excited again. Happy New Year!
Oooh also, would anyone like to do a side ZOOM to kind of have a Honeycomb Almanac tutorial/tips chat? Paging, Amelia? 🙂
I would Zoom with you. I have been doing Honeycomb for a year.
Not sure if y’all already zoomed but my email is ameliaricofilms@gmail.com if you haven’t.
Hey Bonnie!
New here! but not new to the Boonie-verse.
I had a question regarding something you said in reference to Air Signs around 1hr 16 mins. You said that Gemeni likes to be alone, Libra needs a partner and Aquarius does things for the greater good.
Do the other element groups have a similar “alone-partner-group” distinctions?
Y’know, I was thinking about that after the Zoom, Sam, so I’m glad you brought it up. In going through all of the element-grouped signs, I came to the conclusion that it’s only the Air signs that have that easy-to-remember hook about alone-partner-group focus.
(Oh, and note that it’s not that Gemini prefers to be alone; it’s that they do not *need* anyone else there in order to have a convo for hours!!)
I think because it’s TALKING IT OUT that the Air signs do more than anything else, it’s why it’s so easily categorized with the alone-partner-group thing. I can’t see a parallel with any of the other element-grouped signs. Modality? YES. But not element!
Welcome, Sam. So glad you’re here!
Also I had a second question regarding the week of January 24th and 25th. It’s seems like, those days would be great to reach out to representation! …But is that too into “Pilot season”?
I think we’re not going to be having a real pilot season like the beforetimes for a while. So, if you’re feeling like your targeting is showing a good opening AND the woo is working out to do it, go for it! Just know they have a good stopper to use anytime we reach out during seasons that are typically super busy. 🙂
whoooo weeee Scorpio moon, y’all! Real table flipping, ugly crying energy up in here! Hope everyone is doing ok!
I hope you’re feeling better Jill !! Those Scorpio moons are no joke !! I was crying watching the Decaprio movie – and it’s supposed to be a comedy! Wishing you all a happy, magical, abundant new year everybody!!!! Especially Bonnie – I am very grateful I met you this year and have learned so much from you – especially helpful in breaking all of this stuff down into fun easy to understand bites!!!
Aw, thank you, Dana. I’m so happy to have you in my life. We’re gonna make magic in 2022!! 🙂
Seriously. At one point, I just shouted, “Fuck you, Scorpio moon!” This one was EXTRA.
Hiiiiiiii!
I’m catching uppppppp ….
I have been meaning to get the Honeycomb dealio and since Bon mentioned we might do it in our next session, Imma pulling the trigger!
But, I have two questions –
1) Bon mentioned in this call for December, that you could get X and X, so she got both by doing the book and the wall calendar. What were the X and X again? I’m ordering the book first, and nothing looks familiar from what I remember her saying.
2) The Hellenistic part – I have to review what this is more in depth, but I think it’s related to what April was asking about in the call – about predicting things, etc., right? If so, I thought why the heck not add it to my book! But there is a drop down that says “release from” where you have to choose spirit, etc. What is the best way to go about choosing?
Thank you!!
Oh! Forgot 3rd question …
3) I’m assuming I should get it in Whole signs?
We started with Placidus, but have been doing a lot in Whole, so that’s why I’m guessing that.
Any thoughts for which one?
Thanks!!
Right. That’s Zodiacal Releasing and it’s a Hellenistic predictive timing technique using LOTS. I believe you get three choices with the Honeycomb Almanac (but there are MANY lots — lots of lots — LOL).
Lot of Fortune = your health, vitality, well-being.
Lot of Spirit = your success, abundance, wealth.
Lot of Eros = your love life.
What I did was buy a wall calendar using one of the lots I wanted and the small notebook/planner using the other one that I wanted. 🙂
There’s also astrological software that calculates ZR. I can show y’all on my Astro Gold software during one of the meetings how very intricate this is.
Oh, and if you’re doing anything Hellenistic, you’re going to want to use Whole Sign houses. Annual profections, for example, ONLY works in Whole Signs. 🙂
Me, again!
What would you say is the best day (meaning either Mars day, Saturns Day, etc.) / sign / moon phase / numerology for doing “check off tasks?”
Like – calling the insurance, setting up appointments, filling out a thing, etc.
Could you please give me some options from the above when it would be good and feel easy?
I’m personally leaning toward a day of the week that is the same – meaning it’d have to be a Mars Day, Saturns Day, etc. – because I always have “check off tasks” that need to be done each week – sometimes each day – but at least week at the minimum.
Because, not all good GSD happen every week, the numerology doesn’t line up perfectly every week, etc.
*Usually* I find out that most of the tasks don’t need to be done right away and can wait.
My GUESS is that it would be either Mars Day or Mercury Day?
Then when I’m doing my schedule, I know I can throw all those tasks on every Tuesday and/or Wednesday (or whatever the best answer ends up being).
Me, once again!
Turns out I was wrong about there not being GSD days every week.
So – maybe it would work better to do those tasks on the GSD day of that week?
Or – at least have the option of doing that in case things don’t work out as “planned” sometime.
Trying to find the balance of having options and using the cycles and routines! 🙂
Haaaaaaaahahahahahaha!! I JUST spent hours — and hours — doing all the Chart Harmony goodies (which you’ll get access to as an upgraded bonus to the Astrology Vision Board Party, of course) and I cover exactly this! All the layering and the leaning into the calendar one of 3 (or technically 5) ways. Yep, yep, yep. I’ve gotchuu!!
The Chart Harmony bonus has been upgraded at the Astrology Vision Board Party course at Teachable. Woo HOO! Go get it, y’all!
Ooooh, yay!! Going to go check it out. THANKS so much, Bon!! <3
I hope you love it! 🙂 I’m very proud and excited for where we’re growing with this by year-end!
Bon! I have someone who might be interested in joining here!
What link should I send her?
<3
Direct link to initiate the monthly PayPal dealio here.
Link to the sales page for this (and other stuff) here.
Replay link to the year-end webinar (if she needs a “try before you buy” experience) here.
Thanks for sharing the love! 🙂
Bon – just a note that I finished my calender-ing for January! I don’t think I have questions right now, but just had to share as I’m so excited about it!
It’s a bit tricky to figure out how to keep track of it all because I consult the AA calendar, my notes from what you say about the calendar (which are on a separate sheet), a calendar that I was scribbling things on, and my “real” Google calendar. hahahaha!
But, I think it’s just a matter of getting in the flow and used to this “schedule.”
January will be my real attempt at giving this a go, can’t wait to see things flourish.
Thank you so much for your help!! <3
I had a thought – while at the beach doing my Pisces moon water swim – of how to make it more organized.
I used one of my Trello boards and made a column for each of the four elements.
And I put all the things for each element as a list going down – like all Earthy things on the Earth column, and so on.
That way – when it’s an Earth calendar time, I go to my Earth list and there’s all the things I’m going to work on.
And so on for each element.
And then things that are immediate and can’t wait until its element day – I keep those on a separate list and do them on the day they HAVE to be done and just accept that’s how it is.
This way, every task/thing/action item/project has its own place and time, and I don’t think about it (or TRY not to think about it!! haaha) until it has its time on the calendar based on the cosmos.
This is also gave me my calendar back because I was starting to put tasks back on there, which is not what it’s for. I used to be protective of that, but started straying away.
The Pisces water moon swim was a bit tough today as self-care is not always my forté and my mind tends to race a ton about all the things I “have” to do.
But, I just kept trying to be present and remind myself that – as you said yesterday, Bon – I’m using this time to recharge and be ready for my Fire tasks.
Whew!
Oh, and I meant to say – I laughed when I had the thought of how to make it easier for me WHILE I was doing the Pisces moon water swim … because I know that thought came of how to solve something while I was relaxed and open.
Meaning – it’s just another argument of why more of the Pisces water moon-type things need to happen more often to create that space for things to blossom.
Like how we talked about at one of our last sessions, Bon, about how doing MORE creative-cave type things helps bring in more money because it’s catering to my water sign money houses, etc.
What a journey!
Great idea – I may look at my Trello a bit differently now, too!
You will LOVE the Chart Harmony project for Q4 2022. Yes, y’all will get to see — and experience — beta versions of all the things much sooner. 😉 But think advent calendar with color-coded and texture-matching CARDS that represent all the ingredients in the Chart Harmony recipes we all make for ourselves.
Here’s a sneak peek of the imagery:
*****squeeeeeeeeee*****
OMGGGGGGG soooooooo COOL, Bon!!
You da bomb!!
Cannot wait!! <3
squeee indeed!
As usual, AMAZING!
Bon, if someone doesn’t know their exact birth time, but knows it’s during the day – what would they put? 12pm?
That can work. Rachel recommends sunrise. I’ve used noon for people who are sure it’s during the day but not likely as early as sunrise.
You can look at Planet Watcher (or any app that allows you to adjust the dates and see the chart of the day/time you adjust to) and see if the Moon changes signs during that day (that’s the only one you could FOR SURE notice if it shifts enough to make a big difference in someone’s chart — if it moves into a different sign) and do some interviewing of how that person gets their needs met to make a safe bet as to which of the two Moon signs it would be, and that can help you get closer to the time as well.
Of course the thing you won’t know for sure without an accurate birthtime is their Rising (Ascendant, ASC, AC, depending on which app you’re using). And THAT is a really big personality factor (bigger than the Sun and the Moon, most of the time). That changes every couple of hours, so you can do a further bit of inquiry about their personality to estimate what’s likely to be true for them.
There’s a process called rectification that some astrologers do to help people with uncertain birthtimes get pretty dang close. I don’t do that but I can make referrals to folks who do, if you’d like!
Thanks, Bon!!
Yes, exactly – not getting the Rising is what I was worried about because it’s such a big deal.
Will attempt some of your tips.
I am helping someone and it’s SO good for me because having to “teach” forces me to up my game!! hahaha
<3
Love it! That’s such a great opportunity to notice how much you’ve grown in your awareness of how all this works. Well done!
Copying-and-pasting from an email exchange:
I love that you’re in there doing some homework!
So, only a few times in our lives do the degrees for BOTH opposites align. Those are extra special days!!
But every year, we get a solar opposition (that’s your November 7th discovery) and every MONTH, we get a lunar opposition (so, that’s the October 27-29 range for you, as well as another 11 times in the year).
The MAGIC day is the few times a lifetime when both the solar opposition and our monthly lunar opposition line up. Those are big vitality boosts and emotional body realignments that are really exciting to experience (I had mine over the weekend, along with that Venus starpoint magic).
As for which of the days you discovered (November 7th and late night on October 28th) will feel most meaningful, I would say this is where you can use each month’s lunar reversal to check how powerful those feel EVERY time and then, when we get to October and November, really notice how you feel in that whole RANGE of dates, especially paying attention to whether the November 7th opposition feels more powerful than ANY of those monthly lunar oppositions may have felt.
I know I always feel more powerfully aligned with the Moon, but that’s probably because I have so many Cancer planets and placements (and Cancer is ruled by the Moon). You’ll get data from your own experiences and then know for sure how to celebrate the specialness of the day that really matches best (exact degree for your Sun but with a whole different Moon OR not-exact-degree for the Sun but your exact degree Moon).
Sounds like fun? 😉
I’m going to copy and paste this into the comments at the course page. Please do start using that space for these types of questions, because the back-and-forth really does help EVERYONE learn, and that’s what community membership is all about.
Thank you and much love!
Bon!! Astro freak out here … can you please help me re-frame/work with this??
I found a mass on my cat and I mentioned it to the cardiologist when we were there for a check-up (all normal results, thankfully).
The cardio called their regular vet to talk about the mass and the regular vet’s assistant called me to schedule an appointment to get the mass aspirated.
The regular vet wasn’t available for two weeks, but I said I didn’t want to wait that long and I wanted to get in with the next best doctor ASAP.
The next best doctor turned out to be the oncologist. I don’t think they chose it to be with the oncologist because the mass might be cancer, but because she was the next best doctor available ASAP.
The appointment is for tomorrow, Monday the 17th, so I said yes, let’s take it.
It JUST hit me now that it’s a full moon then.
DOH. I’m so mad because I’ve been SO down with the astro lately and I totally let that slip my mind.
I’m not worried as much about doing the appointment on a full moon, but more so the aspiration.
Because all I can think about is the Astro Moon Seek website that says “NO!” in all caps and exclamation point for doing surgery on a full moon.
An aspiration is not full surgery per se as it’s just drawing fluid from the mass.
But I’m still freaking out nonetheless.
Should I move the appointment??
I was looking forward to having the appointment with the oncologist so I can ask her questions in case it is cancer.
But, I can see if she has something else this week. I don’t know how busy or in-demand she is though.
Gahhhhh! Can you please lend your Bonnie wisdom to this?
Thank you!!!! <3
Update – She had Wednesday available, so I ended up switching it. I was too freaked out! :/
{{{hugs}}} I’m so glad you got an appointment that feels less freak-out-y to you. Honestly, our energy around it has far greater impact than the woo of it all. So, that YOU feel better with the Wednesday slot is everything. Sending healing vibes to your sweet kitty and to you, always!
Exactly. That’s what I was thinking and why I moved it. I thought of reasons of why it would be “okay,” and how to not get in my head about it – but in the end, I’m like – if I have any doubts and don’t feel good about it, that energy is going to be just as “bad.”
Thank you so much for the hugs and healing vibes! <3
Just popping in to say hello on this Cancer full moon! 🙂
It has been a really intense week or so for me surrounding travel plans and work opportunities.
I had committed to a work opportunity about 6 weeks ago with a well-known touring artist- the job required me to head back to LA, it would net me a few grand and require me to be in town from 1/24-1/30 – but as I got ready to hit the road (still on the east coast), dreading a winter drive – my intuition said move forward slowly…. especially knowing that we were in the shadow of mercury retrograde…. and on the 12th, the day b4 retrograde began and two days before I was going to hit the road – I got an email from the tour manager…. tour postponed due to covid restrictions – they dont need me till April now.
Sad for the loss of $$ – but my whole body breathed a sigh of relief – and since that moment, I’ve had 6 rather big auditions (mostly modeling, some tv) – that would require me to be here on the east coast during that exact same time frame as the la gig. SO happy to not be driving across the country – and have to turn around – when one of these opportunities comes to fruition. (when, not IF! lol)
I’m at a place in my life where I’m almost ready to hang up the “audition shoes”… and yet, I’m feeling optimistic about all this movement….perhaps some jupiter in pisces glitter… ?
I’ve also had some rather nice conversations with two long ago ex’s (2001, 2005) – (thanks mercury/venus retrograde)… It’s been over a decade since I’ve dated someone, and there’s not many ex’s around that aren’t married or sadly deceased – these two I connected with over the past few days, are possibly the only two out there not currently in a commited relationship. *Not* that I’m getting back together with either of them, tho I could probably be persuaded, but it’s always nice to reconnect with someone who reminds you that once upon a time you actually did have sex with another human being! (haha… kidding, not kidding)
The first half of December was very tense and strained for me -with my parents – I’ve been spending a lot of time under their roof in Philly (in between my NY gigs). A lot of gaslighting and narcisstic behaviors – The day Mars went into Sag (12/13) Mom and I had a huge blow up. Or more appropriately, she caught me off-guard and in a vulnerable state and threw all kinds of shit my way. But this time, rather then reacting and internalizing the nasty words, the guilt, shame and blame thrown at me – I saw threw it and kind of felt sad for her, sad for me too, but in a different way.
Capricorn season… I’ve been doing extremely well at not playing the games and/or reacting to the triggers that my Mom constantly throws at me. I’ve been putting my own self-care first, and utilizing the tips and techniques I learned from my work with a trauma specialist.. and it feels like we’ve hit some sort of truce in the house.
Cancer Full Moon – I’m definitely working on re-parenting, and it’s kinda tough to reparent while actually living with your parents! lol lol And yet, here I am. <3
Happy Full Moon in Cancer, y'all
I know my brokerage management can’t be into astrology, because they are switching CRMs this week! Mercury retrograde fun!!
Gah!