Hello you beautiful people and welcome to Aligned Advantage for February!

We’re so excited to go on this deep dive of each month’s calendar together using the power of the woo-woo tools my momma taught me. 😉
Hooray!
It’s time to tackle the calendar so here we go!
Our Zoom on February 10th will be about March’s magic. Scroll down to get registered to be a part of that *next* session! ’til then, it’s all about February.
As always, we’ll cover what the numerology of the days mean, what the moon phases tell us, and of course how all this plays out in your favor in the most intriguing and powerful ways! During the Zoom, you’ll get a chance to hop in the hot seat — be sure to bring your birthdate so I can work my magic with you — and we’ll talk about how the woo of the month aligns with YOU!
Please feel free to ask questions in the comments area below and while some will be best-suited for our live Zoom, certainly I’ll do what I can to help explain some of how I make the calendar work for me in the comments before and after our Zooms.

If you need support materials for interpreting the various notations on this calendar, head back over to your Aligned Advantage Welcome page, where I have stored all sorts of goodies for you!
And now… the replay of our live Zoom session about the February calendar and all its juicy goodness! Enjoy!
Questions? Keep ’em comin’! I love these discussions SO MUCH and really enjoy sharing all this learning with you.
Y’all, thank you for joining me in this exciting woo-woo venture! I’m so proud to be the astrologer’s daughter and I know Charlsie is so happy to see this happening right now. 🙂
All my love,
Wanna join us for our next monthly LIVE interactive Aligned Advantage meeting? Register here ASAP! Our next meeting will take place via Zoom on Monday, February 10th, at 12pm PST. Translate that to your time zone here.
After you register, you will receive an email with information on how to connect. You are welcome to go on camera for this Q&A session, or simply unmute yourself to participate live audio-only. Yes, we will be recording the meeting and putting its replay up (along with the next calendar) in next month’s page for you to consume. Hooray!
Before the Zoom, please post questions *here* (even though the robot email from Zoom includes an email address for questions). Thank you. 😉
If you’ve never Zoomed before, we recommend you get all set up *before* our meeting. Zoom is free, and there’s info on how to get going here.
And of course, any questions for us, pop ’em in below! Woo HOO!
So here’s how I am using all this info, let me know if I am on the right track!
From before I talked about my 4 year being one of healing my relationship with structure and routine. To cut down on the overwhelm, I stared with looking at the Dad planet, Saturn.
My Saturn is in opposition to Jupiter — makes sense, I have difficulty holding myself to things that are just because, they have to conform to my beliefs. And I can’t take advantage of luck if my life is in chaos. So, affirming that this is an area that needs to be working and that I also need to make sure that my structures have something to do with my convictions. Didn’t really have any of the other do-hickeys.
So, I looked at the AC, daily practices. My moon was in opposition. Does this indicate that I need to have routines that include my physical environment, and that my space needs to be neat in order for my day to day functioning to succeed? It seems like a no-brainer yet I don’t do it. And it makes me crazy lol. I looked to the Moon things for more clues, and I found my Moon (Gemini) was supported by (trine) Mars (in Aquarius) and Jupiter (faith), and in conflict (square) with Pluto (generational healing) and MC (career – in Libra). That’s where I said “Huh?” and couldn’t figure out how I might interpret all that. Does it possibly mean that my personal space would benefit from making sure it is set up to honor the way I deal with conflict (Aquarius) and my beliefs (astrology, numerology, and a weird blend of Quakerism, reform Judaism, and atheism — I said it was weird!!)? And what would that even look like? And does the conflict area mean that maybe I need to keep my home environment as separate from my work environment…or separate my social life/how I party from my career (acting)? An example comes to mind that maybe network parties and mixers are not an effective use of my resources in forwarding my career? Or maybe my natural party mode really needs to be adjusted for me to socialize effectively to forward my career, break out of my comfort zone? Or my tendency to actually not have friends outside of the acting world is problematic? Because maybe the MC (Libra) wants balance and the AC (Sag, like the sun) wants intensity, and my career relationships just need to look and function differently than my friendships?
My AC was also blind in Mercury….I can be really haphazard in my handling of communications and also flit from learning one thing or another and not following through. I think it would be fair to say that I lack awareness of the impact it has on my life. My takeaway is that with the new moon in Aquarius, one of my intentions should look at my routines for handling communication and also taking in information, and with my Mercury in Aquarius anyway, really thinking about those routines and how they can foster community and both serving a variety of people AND bringing a wider variety of people into my world. Also maybe looking at daily habits that interfere with my learning and effective communication. Do I save my social media engagement and missives for friends as well as colleagues for when I am all out of cope? I have noticed a pattern I have of posting almost all my comments on anything on Friday evenings. Like, ummmm, this.
I have a gift in AC with Mars (Aquarius). T I have the ability to be extremely diplomatic. Maybe it makes sense to think about clocking in to communications and reminding myself about an intention to be diplomatic.
I also looked at Neptune because for me, getting sort of dreamy is my #1 challenge with sticking to structure and routine.
I found blind spots with Neptune in Sun, Mercury, and Venus. That seems pretty intense. with lots of potential for derailing. I have to think about this. Feel free to shoot me ideas, Bonnie or anyone!
This will all be so much fun to play with! Be sure to isolate one thing you want to tackle at a time and let’s play with it (rather than the whole chart and all its transits) because this will be a fun way for everyone to learn!
Before I forget, here‘s a great sign-by-sign walk-through for today’s new moon in Aquarius from Natalie of Soulshine Astrology (this is on Facebook). She’s regularly doing full moon and new moon livestreams (also at Instagram, so there’s the replay of this one there for the next ~18 hours in her stories) and I love how clear she makes it!
omg!!! there is so much i want to write, but i just have to announce that mercury in pices with some VERY frustratingly vague communication is SO FREAKIN’ REAL, y’all! this is the first time in my life that i was wondering “what in the hell is going on here?!?! are people on drugs!?!” and then i looked at our calendar and i realized “holy shit! there it is!!!!”
more soon by friday (provided i don’t land in jail for killing some people in the next few days, that is…)
lord, this is difficult, but mindfulness re: my breathing and center are paramount!
Try not to kill anyone, gorgeous! LOL and I’m soooooo with you on feeling it already. And soon we go retrograde t’boot! Hang in there!
So! A pattern I learned is when Mercury is in Pisces and the moon is in Cancer , my enoughness goes to about 1 across the board! I had two ominous emails “can we schedule a phone meeting” and I was simultaneously certain that the director would fire me from my no-pay acting gig in the directing class she was taking and that I would be let go from my primary survival job, and it turned out that the director had met with her directing teacher to talk about a different opening and wanted to make sure that I would be comfortable painting my nails on set and not getting a pro manicure between now and the performance (yes, my last mani was in 2004 pre-wedding and only because I was gifted one as a bridal shower present…) and my survival job supervisor wanted to know if the implementation of a change I suggested last year was working as I hoped it would.
This is combined with simultaneously in my craft work getting a little more comfy with emotions of fear and sadness and being able to sit with them and acknowledge them without an attempt to numb or deny them so I am feeling a whole lot like a fish on land, a crab without a shell, my archer doesn’t have its bow and arrows, my Gemini moon is missing a twin, and my Scorpio in Venus has a busted stinger.
So, this data-tracking is such great awareness. Sending you so many hugs for the emotional overload. This whole month with the Mercury retrograde coming and us heading into Pisces season and WOOF that intense Cancer moon we just finished… I am specifically looking at all water sign moons between now and mid-March and holding a good thought! (And planning to do dreamy otherworldly things instead of dealing in reality if at all possible.)
To add insult to injury, when I was sick a few months ago my monthly cycle got thrown off (sorry if any guys are in here getting grossed out, but I think it’s just ladies…and that this also isn’t something guys who couldn’t deal with cycles would be super into anyway), and mine pulls hard to being aligned with a full moon (which I know is unusual) so it came “early”, today, to be only one day late from full moon rather than a few days,. I didn’t even think of that but it meant that during that whole Cancer moon thing, I was ALSO PMSing. Fun, fun times!
Also this Leo full moon….I hung on to my social media b/c of that viral post and it’s been a good 18 months and the original post has been shared…not viewed, liked, commented on, but SHARED, over 25k times. Maybe 26k. Who cares lol. And then people screenshot it and shared it via twitter and IG and snapchat, no way to track that. And then people take that and share it on FB, and that’s not in the 25 or 26 or 2XcrapK. But what does happen is strangers try to contact me and worst case, they’re crap heads demanding I justify myself (block/ignore/report/delete) or BEST CASE they praise me but they are ultimately needy people who need something from me as a stranger to fill something incomplete in themselves, and they NEED ME to join their group or like them or follow them or whatever, and they have nothing for me. I kinda thought that something might come of it that mattered to me but it hasn’t and I realize now that it won’t. And if I have to deal with it at all, I have to somehow look at comments by strangers saying, well, her art is shit or she’d be wealthy, when drrrr, the system is more rigged than that…if someone’s stupid beach scene sketches or baby or dog photos would make as much money for Zuckerberg and them, those are the posts that would be viral, not mine. Mine absolutely created some $$$ value for someone, or it would never have been amplified that way. I am just not part of that group of someone. My relationship to social media is I give and it takes, and that’s going to continue to happen unless I stop giving. So today I converted my IG profile from business to personal and set it to private, and I protected my tweets, and I set all past posts on Facebook to private. The defriend everyone is too much of a sticky wicket because I can’t defriend my aunt, and if I am friends with her I have to be friends with her sister-in-law I have met twice and the other uncle/cousin dude I am not sure I ever met, and then how do I justify not being friends with my husband’s family I actually see a couple of times a year….but I can put up a banner and a general post saying I am taking a break until after the election for my sanity and I think all will get that. I am definitely very skilled in social media and in crafting posts but this Leo moon is nudging me to put that to one side and say, hon, if you are so good at that and it has led you to zero paid work ever, why is this next year of social media which is likely to be very divisive and hostile anyway going to be different? Is it just not all a distraction?
Right ON! It was the 2010 midterms that led to my going friendsless at Facebook so I love that you’re letting the election chatter become the WHY behind a WHAT that is healthy for you on many levels. I applaud you, Denise! Well done!
I am going to register for the Zoom and try to be on it in stealth mode. I have a Monday temp job so I may be doing a little or a lot of muting myself and/or looking completely checked out (will try to turn off video or jump off for a few minutes) but if that happens, you all just know I am experimenting to see if there’s even a point to trying to juggle, and I am not zoning out or leaving altogether b/c I am deliberately being disrespectful, got bored, anything like that.
Totally fine, Denise! 🙂 We’ll see you if we see you and take no issue with the HOW of it. 😉 You’re awesome. Thanks for trying the experiment to join us even while at the gig. You rock!